Every mom co-parenting with a narcissist gets this advice. Most have no idea what it’s actually asking of their kids. “Tell dad how you feel.” “Talk to him about it.” “He’s your father — he needs to know.” It sounds healthy. It sounds like the right thing to teach our kids. Here’s what nobody is telling you about that advice. He’s not a reasonable dad who will listen, validate and respond with empathy. He’s a bully. The number one bully in your child’s life. The advice of telling our kids to fac

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